Sunday, September 09, 2007

Monica and Chandler

i've loved "Friends" for the longest time. perhaps because i got to see so many episodes of in on Star World, but still, i think its one of the best shows.

one of the things i particularly liked about it was Chandler and Monica. Chandler alone i hilarious, with "could he BE any more funny?" and all the little inadequate quirks which make him such a brilliant character. but at the same time, he was like that guy with all the mess ups, but still looking for and eventually finding someone to love.

haha, i know i should not be wasting my sunday afternoon (the one just before going back to school, nonetheless) watching all the clips of ChanMon on youtube, but everytime i watch that pairing on screen, its just gives a good feeling.

I hope to find my Monica, someone that is a friend as much as a lover. Its not about finding the perfect person, its finding someone perfect for you. all the times she says "you really don't get women do you?" "uh.. no?" "that's okay :)" and that's how it is.

so many things, that i don't know how to put it. they have love, friendship, understanding, humour, little things that just give the relationship sparkle. most of all is that they have fun, there's not a lot of the mushy mushy, but much on the cute spurts of love even after getting married. if only all marraiges last that way.

i recently had 2 dreams (slept, dreamt, woke up, then slept again, dreamt again, then woke up same sitting, or rather sleeping) and in 2 dreams, i attended 5 weddings. or rather it was 2 weddings, but the first one 3 pairs got married at the same time, and the second time 2 pairs. the first time was friends, and the second was wedding of relatives.

a bit young for me to think about getting married right? afterall, "i am 16 going on 17, i am still naive" (sorry, watched sound of music on star movies!) but still, it makes me wonder what kind of a dad i would be. all the things people say they would do if they got married is not always the reality. i had one relative recently, that broke up with her husband, and i was the "escort boy" for their wedding.

its not usual for me to see a divorce, so i don't really understand it. so many things i don't understand, and yet i dream of marraige and finding a partner. Jon jon jon... silly hormonally charged saggittarious.

back to monica and chandler. cant help but sit and admire (to me) that perfect pair on screen. the love they share may be something made of dreams, or it could happen... can it?

to the writers od Friends, well done, on making such a beautiful couple, they shall be idols in my life, for quite some time to come :)